What sweet cocktail can I order at the bar tonight?

I drink maybe 2 or 3 times a year. Yes, I am a girl, and I am going out tonight with a friend for some drinks. I want something sweet, with schnapps, and that the bartender won't look at me like I am crazy when I order. I don't want to look like I don't know what I am doing at all, and I don't want to have to hold up my phone with a recipe written out saying, "This is what I want." (unless that is acceptable but I feel I will look stupid if I do this)It is just embarrassing to be 32 years old and still not know what to drink. Any advice on a good drink that I may want to try? http://www.reddit.com/r/cocktails/comments/3ekcsy/what_sweet_cocktail_can_i_order_at_the_bar_tonight/